Relationship expert James Brien reveals the early signs a marriage may be in trouble

Marriage is a journey that isn't always smooth, and with 42 percent of them in the UK ending in divorce, it's essential to recognise warning signs early on. However, divorce figures have fallen, showing a positive trend as the latest data from the Office for National Statistics highlighted that the rate for 2022 was the lowest since 1971.

Before things turn sour, experts point out indicators that couples should address to safeguard their marital bond.

Speaking of which, a leading divorce expert has shed light on the early warning signs that might spell trouble for a marriage – as well as advice on how to tackle these challenges. While all relationships have their troubles, dealing with those difficulties is what matters, suggests James Brien from Easy Online Divorce.

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Brien, who has authored books including 'The Real Man's Guide to Divorce' and 'The Mindful Divorce: How to Heal and be Happy After Separation', believes there are six red flags that could suggest looming issues in a marriage, reports the Mirror.

One significant indicator, as per Mr Brien, is falling apart of communication. He explains: "One of the earliest signs of trouble is a breakdown in communication. If you're no longer asking about each other's days and listening to the responses then consider why that might be the case."

Moreover, he argues that a strong marriage is constructed on solid communication and mutual understanding. He says, "A solid marriage is built on being able to open up and talk things through. When this starts to slide it's a good idea to get things back on track quickly. Over time a lack of communication can mean you start to disconnect emotionally."

Mr Brien has issued a warning that a drop in warmth and affection could signify trouble in a relationship. He explains, "Often people in an unhappy relationship become emotionally disconnected and we see that healthy feelings such as warmth and love are replaced with more negative emotions."

Adding to the red flags he pointed out, "If there was once mutual respect and now there's sarcasm and eye rolls every time you talk then it might be time to discuss your problems with a counsellor."

Support is something Mr Brien emphasises as crucial for a functioning partnership, whether it's sharing practical tasks like childcare and household chores or providing emotional backing. He observed, "Couples need to feel as if their needs are being met. If you feel as if you're picking up all of the chores while the other sits around doing nothing then this is where resentment can seep in."

He advises, "It's important to be clear on feelings and discuss what you need to help the relationship thrive. Give your partner the time to act on this."

Furthermore, Mr Brien comments on the significance of intimacy which doesn't always equate to sexual relations. He states, "There's no 'normal' for being intimate in a relationship. Holding hands and enjoying a cuddle on the sofa can be more intimate than other marital activities."

He also reminds couples, "It's important to speak to your partner about your needs and re-establish a connection if it has been lost over time."

It's not merely about where you'll be hanging your stockings this Christmas, it extends to long-term visions. Mr Brien observed: "Happy couples will generally share aspirations for the future, whether this means big travel plans or retirement dreams."

He added, "If you stop making plans together then consider if your future goals still match up."

When it comes to daydreaming about a different life, the occasional wanderlust is harmless, but continuous thoughts of going solo signal an unhealthy trend in a relationship.

Mr Brien cautioned: "When problems arise in a marriage it can be tempting to look at other options."

He pointed out, "If you find yourself constantly thinking about what else might be on offer then that's a strong sign things are going in the wrong direction."

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